Lots of people use the word ‘hope’ in their everyday normal conversation without even realizing how much they are subconsciously and actively undermining their lives.

An incredible author named R. Neville Johnston wrote a book called Hidden Language Codes.  I *highly* recommend you read this book.  Regarding the word hope, he writes:

This is a trick word designed to get us to give up our power of decision.  If we hope for something, we are not deciding the something.  In other words, when we just decide something, there is no doubt, and therefore there is no use for the word hope.

When we desire something, yet do not decide it, we “hope” for it.  It enters reality on a default code.  As long as we hope for anything, we doubt it.  Decide instead.  To say “hope” out loud is to abandon the sovereignty of the creation of life.

The concept of having no hope is like a double default code decision.  In other words, you are no longer doubting how hopeless (itself a form of doubt) things are.  Yet we still keep watch, thus injecting a third doubt code, entitled “just in case,” / “hoping against hope.”  Notice how we never hope with hope.  This would be a negative-positive-negative code.  Dismiss all these little tangles as being nonsense.  Decide, don’t hope.  In fact, boast of being “hopeless.”

Even Tony Robbins teaches to eliminate the word ‘hope’ from your vocabulary as well.

Discover ways to elevate your thinking to have actions occur in your life by making decisions for yourself and not allowing situations to simply happen without your conscious interaction.

Mike Lewitz is an innovative marketer who truly 'gets' the mental and emotional buying process of consumers. He's shown thousands of global business owners proven, cutting-edge marketing methods that bring abundant results.  Mike is a Google Certified Advertising Professional, holds two Bachelor's degrees (business & marketing) and is finishing an M.B.A.

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“If everyone suddenly woke up and started being proactive, civilization would be threatened… because, at this point, much of the emotional infrastructure of human interaction is built around the voluntary zombification of the majority.”
~ John Carlton  http://www.john-carlton.com/2009/05/myth-busting/

Despite its truth, people still need to wake up out of their scarcity-based lifestyle and learn how to recognize the endless abundance that exists.  The whole notion that there is not enough money or natural resources, that we have overpopulation problems, not enough energy, etc, etc.  …these myths promoted by naive masses (sheeple?) are only there to perpetuate what is distinctly illustrated in Carlton’s quote.

If you wish to remain asleep, simply turn on the news.  They’ll tell you exactly what you should be thinking, feeling and buying.

However, if you wish to wake up, then figure out a way to step out of your comfort zone a little every day, choose to become accountable for every thought and activity in your life, and learn to recognize the endless abundance that is in your life as well as everyone’s life around you.  Use your newly discovered abundance to make meaning in the lives of others.

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Here’s the deal:
Eben Pagan, an extremely brilliant and successful business man (whom I study often) said, “Focusing on working to make money is like focusing on driving your car to get gas.  It’s backwards.”

That quote represents the very core of every person who is struggling financially, regardless of the economic times.  Too many people are focusing on working to make money.

Money is simply an exchange of value.

That’s it.

By itself, money is just worthless paper or little metal discs with fancy artistic pictures (or numbers in a computer database).

If value isn’t exchanged, money isn’t exchanged.  This is so fundamental, yet too many people are stuck in their backwards thinking and don’t recognize it.

Now, someone is sure to pipe up at this point and say, “Well, yeah, but when there’s no money how can anyone exchange value?”

My blank stare response is:

If you believe there is no money …that the money factory burned down, or some clever ‘money-bandit’ showed up in the middle of the night and stole all the money and is hiding it deep in some undiscovered cave near a rural town in Southern Arizona… If you choose to believe what you see on CNN and the rest of the fear-based thought police and their headline news reports…

…then, what you argue for you keep, my friend, and you have certainly earned your right to be broke and stand in an unemployment line with nothing to offer but an open palm.

Money does not disappear.  Money moves around and it does not move until AFTER value is exchanged, not before.  Too many people are looking to exchange value after money is exchanged, or believe that money is somehow required to exchange value and, thus, value cannot be exchanged if there is no money.

This is quite sad, actually.  For anyone who knows how to exchange value with others, money will always be available.  Always.  Why?  Because, again, money is simply a means of exchanging the value, money is not the value itself.

Here’s a real-life scenario:
On Monday, February 16, 2009, Frank Kern earned almost $4 Million in 8 hours …and on a holiday, no less.

How did Frank Kern do this?  How was this possible -with “everyone” broke and “nobody has any money?”  Does Frank have magic powers?  Did he discover another secret money factory and not tell anyone?  Maybe he found that ‘money-bandit’ in an Arizona ghost town saloon and slipped a mickey in his Gin to make him talk?  Or maybe Frank has secret ties with some bank executives and swindled a few out of their bail-out money (Frank Kern is quite the wordsmith).

Seriously.  Frank understands how to give away huge value.  In fact, Frank Kern gives away TONS of value …with no strings attached… and so does Eben Pagan, along with many other highly successful people most of the world has never heard of.  They give their value away first without ever receiving a penny.  If these successful business people did not give their value away first, they would not be at their level of success.

The bottom line is: If money is just an exchange of value, and money is not coming to you, and value precedes money, then obviously YOU must figure out a way (or a new or better way) to start exchanging value with others, whether that is in your own business venture, at your job, or at a new job that allows you to exchange more value.

In other words… If you lack money, you’re not giving enough value to others.

A college degree is supposed to help you exchange more value.  Unfortunately, many people believe the value is just in the degree itself.  They don’t understand the degree itself is worthless.

As a quick, final point: Most people and businesses attempt to increase profits by raising prices.  Naturally this lowers the monetary buying power over time.  Years ago, a candy bar was 79¢ (and even less).  Now, they’re about $1.29 for the same candy bar.

Adding value to products and services increases monetary buying power.  I might sell a training course for $100 and give $100 in value.  However, if I also offer a $200 web site at no additional cost, now $100 buys $300 of real product, effectively increasing the monetary buying power.

The only way to solve personal economic issues is by giving more value to others -and as much value as possible.  If you are giving what is genuinely perceived by others as valuable, money will naturally flow to you.  This is the spiritual Law of Reciprocity and is unbreakable.

Focus on genuinely benefiting the lives of others and you will achieve a life of wealth beyond your wildest dreams.

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We have full control over the life we lead and must learn to accept our responsibility for all of our decisions and actions (as well as our indecisions and inactions). So, the next time you feel unempowered about something, instead of saying “I can’t do…” or “I can’t be…” say “I won’t…”

It feels strange and kinda icky to say …as if we’ve suddenly realized our inability to do something is actually OUR fault or within our control and we’ve simply chosen to not take appropriate action instead of us just being a victim of some external, invisible force (like the economy -hint, hint). Saying “I won’t” places the accountability back on US. Yeah, it feels kinda weird at first.

When we say we won’t, it’s like we said, “Well, I could’ve if I wanted to, but I chose not to and I didn’t, but if I really want to I can and if I decide to I will.”  Instead, we’ve chosen to use the word “can’t” to take the responsibility off us.  Heaven forbid we accept responsibility for our decisions (even if they were subconscious).  We use it so often as an excuse, we’ve actually convinced ourselves that we’re now powerless.  “Can’t” is known as a slave word -it disempowers us, according to R. Neville Johnston (and I completely agree).

Using “won’t” is empowering.  We’re not used to empowering ourselves.  We feel out of place.  We must first recognize and acknowledge the power within us so we can bring it into our lives.

The neat part is… when you realize you’re no longer a victim and recognize you actually DO have complete control over 100% your life, you will learn to make BETTER decisions to have a better life. Cool, eh? (It’s that whole ‘Law of Attraction & Abundance’ thing. Check it out sometime. Really.)

Try it.

Choose to do it over and over. You WILL see a sudden change in your thinking.  To grow you must step out of your comfort zone.
And, naturally, when your thinking changes, your life will change right along with it.

Mike Lewitz is an innovative marketer who truly 'gets' the mental and emotional buying process of consumers. He's shown thousands of global business owners proven, cutting-edge marketing methods that bring abundant results.  Mike is a Google Certified Advertising Professional, holds two Bachelor's degrees (business & marketing) and is finishing an M.B.A.

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Well, what if… we eliminated the whole idea of money?

What if some magical force came over the entire world -like Santa and his 8 tiny reindeer- that suddenly compelled every human being on Earth to wake up on a particular morning and decide that they were going to go about their normal, everyday lives …changing absolutely nothing about their routine, except they had no need or desire for money?  What if people worked only for the genuine reason of trying to better the life of other people?

Really.  What would happen?  What could happen?

Consider: Money is simply an exchange of value -for money itself, merely paper or coins with artistic drawings (or numbers in a computer), has no intrinsic value.

But, what if everyone decided to do what they do just for the sake of doing it? (There’s that ‘What if’ question again)

So, a painter who loves to paint houses would just keep painting houses.  A car mechanic who loves working on cars would simply continue working on cars.  And, because each of these people would no longer have any monetary overhead, they wouldn’t be motivated to work or not work based on the amount of money they’d receive for their work.  In other words, no mechanic would turn down a job because “the pay is too little.”  They would accept the job based on the work needed.

Homes would still be built because of the people who love building homes.  There would still be electricity and running water because there are people who enjoy this technically challenging work.  Yes, there are even people who take pride in cleaning toilets.

Do not misunderstand, this is not an altered system of barter, rather a system of doing merely for the sake of the enjoyment of doing.  Bartering still involves the thought process of: “I have to give to get, and I won’t get unless I give.”  It’s oriented in self.

The difference is only the source of the motive: towards self vs. towards others.  Nothing else is changed.

The judgement on work would not be connected to price anymore.  Things might be based on quality or value.  Instead of businesses cutting corners to lower expenses, businesses might strive for highest quality or value, as quality would elevate to a different level of “currency.”  (Quality and value are already a form of currency, but constrained by money.)  No Space Shuttle would blow up due to parts made by “the lowest bidder.”

However, as fanatically noble, Utopian and naive as this probably sounds to many (yes, a lot of people will probably tell me to put down the crack pipe), it might  not be as absurd as it initially appears when examined closer (except for the Santa part).

There are two major shifts that have now completely re-defined the very nature of business: One is the continued evolution of something known as the ‘Knowledge Worker’ (coined by Peter Drucker) and the other is the principle of ‘moving the free line.’

Simplistically, the Knowledge Worker concept says high value is exchanged through ideas, not physical objects.  People with powerful, innovative ideas are desirable and preferred.

‘Moving the free line’ is the concept that those businesses who freely give away the most highly valuable information will be most sought after.  Look no further than the vast social networks that now exist on the Internet and the incredible value exchanged within them …all for the mere cost of an Internet connection (which can even be had for free, now).

For years, our real value in people is how they benefit others, usually gauged by their job or work, and not by the money they earn.  We do not ask people how much money they earn …and not because it’s socially unacceptable.  We ask what they do for a living.  Their income is no value to us.  I would argue that asking how much money someone earns has become socially unacceptable because we intuitively know there is no value there.

Compare someone who’s won the lottery and currently does nothing, enjoying their payouts -they offer no value to anyone (which is the reason why “A fool and his money are soon parted”) with someone who volunteers for the Peace Corps.  If someone happens to be in the market for a home, for example, and a person says they’re a real estate agent or a mortgage broker, usually they begin to think about how that person may be able to benefit their life in this area of need.  People will never stop having needs.

Is it possible to imagine a world where those with self-esteem issues can be helped and elevated to become highly functioning components of a society that thrives on thoughtful innovation and contribution?  Is it possible to imagine a world where we can explore other planets because we’re not limited by monetary budgets?  Is it possible to image a world where anyone who wants to become a great doctor can?

Is it possible to imagine a world where the motivation to perform is intrinsic instead of extrinsic, ie: the desire to serve others, as opposed to the desire to serve ourselves?

Among the interconnected Spiritual Laws, the Law of Reciprocity states that whatever someone does will be returned back to them.  Thus, if one wants success, they must first help another become successful.  This is not a superficial phrase created by a pretentious religious leader looking to increase donations to their church.

Endless, tangible proof exists of this immutable truth.

Personally, I have studied many highly successful people.  What separates highly successful people from everyone else, with rare exception, is these people are genuine givers.  Thus, because of their mindset, their thinking process is always, “How can I figure out how to create something that’s highly valuable and will genuinely benefit the lives of others?”  …as opposed to always thinking about “How can I benefit myself and if I’m able then I’ll try to benefit others, too.”  Can you see a distinct difference?

Guy Kawasaki talks about “making meaning, not money” and to create “peace of mind,” as that is what all people seek.  Eben Pagan creates endless, valuable, free content that elevates both men and women to become better, stronger people through interpersonal relationships and proven principles of business.  Eben said, “Focusing on working to make money is like focusing on driving your car to get gas.  It’s backwards.”

These men, as well as many like them, are only motivated by doing for others.  It’s no coincidence they are successful by any definition.

Money is simply the enabler to continue doing what we want to be doing anyway …helping others.  So, what if we could eliminate the money part where we could all just be doing what we want to be doing anyway without being distracted with the notion that we’ve got to somehow earn money first so we can continue doing what we want to be doing anyway?

Whether many like it or not, there is a growing evolution of more people awakening spiritually to finding their purpose is in helping others.  Fundamentally, nearly every human being has the desire to help others: at the core level, all humans are motivated by love.  Some may be motivated to help only a few, such as only immediate family and close friends, while others may be motivated to help many.  Nevertheless, the core motivation is the same.

Only the belief of scarcity is what holds people back …a false idea that if we blindly give more to someone else, we will somehow be without or lacking in some way (as if there isn’t enough).  Those who are unaware of spiritual laws have trouble letting go of scarcity beliefs.  Eben Pagan says that one of the secrets to becoming highly successful is to “get used to getting the short end of the stick.”

In our current world of unlimited abundance of all resources, scarcity thoughts are no longer necessary.  When we eliminate scarcity from our thoughts, we transform into new people capable of living in a way we never imagined.

By design, as is the Yin and Yang of everything, there are natural forces towards equilibrium.  Peace cannot exist without war, life cannot exist without death, happiness cannot exist without sadness, and so forth.  We do not (and will not) grow without our struggles.  Naturally, our humanity has evolved us into a society of ‘haves’ and ‘have-nots.’  It’s a natural hierarchical instinct found deep within our DNA that will never disappear out of mere suggestion after thousands of years of evolutionary behavior.

While I certainly don’t pretend to know all the answers or provide a viable solution to economic problems that have plagued mankind and these “What if’s” likely raise more questions than answers, one thing is absolutely certain: We do exist in a Universe with an unlimited abundance of all resources, ideas and space, and those who believe otherwise just need to be educated.  Those who manifest a life of scarcity have to be woken up.

Certainly, many efforts exist to perpetuate the notion of scarcity: it’s highly profitable.  One of the most powerful techniques of marketing that entices people to buy is the creation of scarcity.

Yes, there is a direct link between scarcity and money.  Even careful study of the banking system reveals an elaborate hoax built solely on the intent of perpetuation of scarcity and illusion: every dollar possessed by anyone is a debt owed to someone that can never be repaid.

Yet, the mere notion that there are not enough resources just because of a belief of “lack of money” is profoundly more absurd and naive than any fanatically noble Utopia.  “There’s not enough” is an all too common phrase spoken and believed throughout the World.

One way or another, this must change and, regardless of the solution, I choose to be a part of that change.

Scarcity is a myth, a lie.  If each of us do not eliminate scarcity from our thoughts, it will enslave us and those around us into a world of fear and the belief that we are constrained by some invisible, external force, preventing us from helping ourselves as well as others.

So, what if we just eliminate scarcity instead?

What if, indeed.

Mike Lewitz is an innovative marketer who truly 'gets' the mental and emotional buying process of consumers. He's shown thousands of global business owners proven, cutting-edge marketing methods that bring abundant results.  Mike is a Google Certified Advertising Professional, holds two Bachelor's degrees (business & marketing) and is finishing an M.B.A.

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